Stuff.
We all have it. At times our collection of stuff grows so large that it cannot
be contained in one room. It spills out into other areas of our homes,
sometimes resulting in a garage packed so deep there’s no room for the car. Or,
we elect to relocate our stuff to a storage unit where we pay rent and don’t
have to look at it (or deal with it!). Yet, we can visit it occasionally --
just to make certain it’s still there.
Situations
that involve hoarding, the overwhelming clutter that dominates our lives and
living spaces, and individuals drowning in excess stuff is problematic in
America. However, stuff is big business and industry has discovered that
America’s problem with clutter translates to big money. (Note: This article
does not address “hoarding”, a disorder that most often requires professional
therapy.)
Fugal Living |
Back
in the 1970’s the late comedian George Carlin created an entire routine on
“stuff.” According to Carlin:
Actually this is just a
place for my stuff, ya know? That's all, a little place for my stuff. That's all
I want, that's all you need in life, is a little place for your stuff, ya know?
I can see it on your table, everybody's got a little place for their stuff.
This is my stuff, that's your stuff, that'll be his stuff over there. That's
all you need in life, a little place for your stuff. That's all your house is:
a place to keep your stuff. If you didn't have so much stuff, you wouldn't need
a house. You could just walk around all the time.
A house is just a pile of stuff with a cover on it. You can see that when you're taking off in an airplane. You look down, you see everybody's got a little pile of stuff. All the little piles of stuff.
A house is just a pile of stuff with a cover on it. You can see that when you're taking off in an airplane. You look down, you see everybody's got a little pile of stuff. All the little piles of stuff.
Take
for example a television program that was popular just a few years back. The
premise for each episode was that a volunteer family went through the process
of having their lives de-cluttered. The team experts led the family members in
dealing effectively and efficiently with their excess stuff. These lucky individuals
reclaimed power over their lives through an elimination process.
As
one who has relocated quite a bit over the past 15 years, I’m very familiar
with keeping my personal possessions to a minimum. I’m certain that our
military families can relate to this as well. For the majority of people,
however, excess stuff is a problem.
Do
you have too much stuff? Here’s a quick exercise: Look around your personal
space – be it a bedroom, office, living room, or other room of your choice. No,
not a sweeping glance. Give it a good look. Pretend you’ve never seen this room
before. What impression do you have? Is it neat and orderly? Or, are the table,
chair, and bed overflowing with piles of clutter? If the latter is the case,
you need to make peace with your things and keep only those items that you
really love or really need. All the other things need to go – not on vacation,
but for good.
The
reason you want to ditch the clutter is that it holds you in place. Clutter
prevents you from moving forward. This belief is based on the philosophy of
feng shui, which is all about balance. Feng shui proposes that everything in
this world is made up of vibrations and everything holds energy, or Chi
(pronounced chee as in CHEEtos). This
energy is inside you and all around you. When you improve your chi, you improve
your life.
Improving
your chi does take focus and intention. For example, when you need to study or
complete projects, clear your desk or workspace. That’s right. Remove
everything. Wipe it down. Now, put back only those things that are absolutely
essential (and, no, your espresso machine is not an essential). If you’ve got
stuff draped over the back of your chair, put it away. This activity will give
you a fresh start and a fresh perspective on your projects. Try it for a couple
of weeks and see for yourself.
I
worked with a woman once who cleared her desk every evening before leaving the
office. She said by doing this simple exercise she was able to begin her day
with a fresh start. This is similar to making certain the dishes are washed and
stored before going to bed so the kitchen is clean for the new day. I adopted
this practice of clearing my desk at the end of the day and I can attest to
appreciating the look and feel of entering a clean office.
Here
are more ideas for boosting your chi:
- Turn
off the lights, the loud music, and the TV. Get some deep, peaceful sleep.
- Eat
like you understand the theory that good food and lots of water will give
you great skin and strong bones.
- Get
some exercise! It works – try it.
- Spend
time with your family and friends.
- Laugh
and laugh. Then, laugh some more.
- Read
a book for pleasure.
- Surround
yourself with colors you love.
Now
that you’ve decided to take steps in reducing clutter and, thereby, improving
your chi, you might want some ideas for recycling that clutter. Here are some
suggestions to get you started.
- Bring something in, take
something out. For example, I have a CD holder that holds 48 CDs. When I
buy a new CD, I remove an old one. That way, my collection never outgrows
its space.
- Bring
your excess stuff to the local thrift shop.
- Take
photos of the stuff you want to get rid of and post them on eBay. Extra
cash perhaps?
- If
your community doesn’t have an exchange center, create one! This could be
a wonderful service project. In Alaska, Fairbanks had a “Free Day” where
community members would bring all their extra stuff and give it away!
Nothing for sale – just trade.
- Give
your excess stuff to a local charity or church. See whether the charity is
having a tag sale to make money, and then donate your belongings to the
cause.
- Throw
a gift exchange party after the holidays. Ask everyone to bring something
they don’t want and can’t exchange. Your trash is sure to be someone’s
treasure!
In
conclusion, help create balance in your life by reducing the clutter. Find out
how well clearing your space helps to clear your mind. It can be life altering!
Sonja
Koukel, PhD
Extension
Health Specialist
Certified
Healthy Homes Specialist
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